A Happy and Healthy Lifestyle
There is an infinite number of different ways in which people live their lives, and an equally infinite number of different kinds of people. To ask the question, “how to be happy?” is a difficult one to answer, but from the study of various cultures, religions and people, it seems that there are some commonalities that run through the lives of those people who seem the most contented and happy within. The First Common Happiness Trait – Belief in HappinessThe first and probably foremost commonality is the belief in happiness itself. Without believing it is possible, then it is difficult to obtain. Most people generally have moments of happiness in their lives and also moments of suffering. But most of us would like to avoid the suffering bit and just skip straight to the happiness. The Second Common Happiness Trait – Non-attachmentThe second common trait noticed among happy people, would have to be non-attachment. The great Master and founder of Buddhism, Shakumuni Buddha, explained the Four Noble Truths, in which he explained that the root cause of suffering is attachment. Attachment can be seen in many ways, and this discussion could, and has gone on for over 2500 years since the Buddha first taught this. But in today’s society which is so filled with materialism, ego and self indulgence, attachment is something most of us are quite immersed in. The Third Common Happiness Trait – A Belief in Something Higher than OurselvesThe third common trait noticed among people who are happy is a belief in something higher. Some people choose to call this God, Buddha, Mohammed, Christ, the Spirit within and many others. But these names are really only just a concept in the person’s mind which represents the idea that there is something greater than themselves. This may not be just a belief for some people as they may have experienced glimpses of something much more divine than this earthly existence. But nevertheless, proving it is probably impossible, but their belief, faith or knowledge is most usually unshakable. The Fourth Common Happiness Trait – Knowing How to Give and Receive LoveThe fourth common trait noticed among people who are happy is knowing how to give and receive love. These people recognize that love is everywhere, in humans and animals alike. They focus on it, give it and gladly receive it. It is kind of like a habit to them and everyone seems to like them, even dogs and cats, because they just exude that feeling everyone is looking for. The Fifth Common Happiness Trait – CompassionThe fifth common trait noticed among people who are happy is compassion. Compassionate people definitely suffer less. “Do unto others as you would have the do unto you” is a famous quote by Jesus which shows how our actions come back to us. The Buddhists and Hindus believe in Karma which is also similar. The extent to which a person shows compassion is far reaching and always includes the way we treat other humans, but what about our animal friends? A vegetarian diet saves the lives of countless animals. Eating meat is indirectly causing great harm to others, and even ourselves. The Sixth Common Happiness Trait – MeditationThe sixth common trait noticed among people who are happy is a habit of meditation. This does not always mean sitting with crossed legs (although often it does). Some people may slip into meditation while watering the garden or even surfing, but nevertheless the person is tasting the divine within. The site does not provide
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